Underneath all the work, there are four questions we keep returning to:
- Can I live like this? — do I have what I need, am I supported?
- Do I like living like this? — am I in contact with life, with feeling?
- May I live like this? — is it right for me, is it mine, authentic?
- Should I live like this? — do I want this, does it have meaning?
These aren't questions with fixed answers — and neither are we. A person is never complete; we are ever-changing creatures as long as we are alive. The only question is
How? How would I live this period of time from birth to my last days? Hopefully, with inner consent to wherever I find myself in between.